TALK TO US & FAQs
We understand this may be a challenging time. We offer a fast and confidential service. We will get back to you within 24 hours, usually much faster. Evening and weekend appointments available.
We offer free 15 minute consultations.
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Or start by reading our FAQs below.
Eastbourne, East Sussex, BN20 9AN
help@sussexmediationhouse.co.uk
FAQs
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Do I have to attend mediation before going to court?
In most cases, yes. Courts in England and Wales usually require you to attend a MIAM before issuing certain family law applications, unless exemptions apply (e.g. domestic abuse or urgency). This is to help you understand all options available. Mediation is often faster and cheaper than court, with more tailored agreements to suit your needs. 69% of mediation cases are resolved without the need of a contested court case.
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What is family mediation and how does it work in Eastbourne?
Family mediation is a structured process where an independent specialist divorce and separation mediator helps separating couples reach agreements on finances, property, and children without going to court. In Eastbourne, sessions can be held in person or online and typically begin with a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting).
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How much does family mediation cost in Eastbourne?
Costs vary depending on the number of sessions and complexity, but mediation is usually far cheaper than hiring solicitors for a contested case. Many mediators offer fixed fees for MIAMs and hourly rates for joint sessions. There is also a £500 voucher which you may be eligible for if you have children and this can be discussed in your first session.
Although mediators understand the law, they are not allowed to give legal advice (even if they are a soliciotr). You may wish to gain separate legal advice, outside of mediation. Your mediator will be able to explain this to you.
4
How long does family mediation take?
Most cases are resolved within 2–5 sessions, often over a few weeks. More complex financial matters can take longer, but mediation is still typically much (much!) faster than court proceedings which can take 18+ months in local courts.
5
Can mediation help with child arrangements?
Yes. Mediation is commonly used to agree:
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where children will live
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contact schedules
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holidays and schooling decisions
The focus is always on the child’s best interests. It is usually much easier to make child arrangements through mediation rather than frequently going to court as needs change as children develop.
Child Inclusive Mediation is also an option and allows children to have their voice heard, by a trained, supportive, neutral mediator.
6
Is family mediation legally binding?
Mediation itself is not legally binding, but agreements can be turned into a legally binding court order (such as a consent order) once approved by a judge. Any offers you make in mediation are confidential UNLESS you reach and agreement and DECIDE to make it binding.
7
What if my ex-partner refuses mediation?
Mediation is voluntary, so both people must be willing to participate. If one person refuses, the mediator will sign a form confirming this, allowing you to proceed with a court application if needed.
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Is mediation confidential?
Yes. Mediation is confidential (unless there are safety concerns) and “without prejudice,” meaning discussions and offers generally cannot be used in court. This helps people speak openly and work towards practical solutions, making offers and compromises to see if an agreement can be reached. Financial disclosures (the facts about your savings and finances) are different. It is important to be open and honest. Your mediator can create an Open Financial Statement and any facts about your finances can be used in court.