Family Mediation in Eastbourne & Sussex
Separating or divorcing? Struggling to agree child arrangements or finances?
Sussex Mediation House provides family mediation in Eastbourne and across East Sussex, helping separating couples and parents find practical ways forward without unnecessary conflict.
We can help with divorce and separation, child arrangements, finances, property and communication between separated parents.
MIAM appointments are available, including MIAMs required before many Family Court applications. Mediation appointments are available online and in person in Eastbourne.
Family Mediation Questions?
How much does a MIAM cost in Eastbourne?
At Sussex Mediation House, an individual MIAM costs £60 and usually lasts approximately 45–60 minutes. Meetings are normally held online, with in-person appointments available.
Do I need a MIAM before going to family court?
For many applications concerning child arrangements or financial orders in England and Wales, you must usually attend a MIAM first unless an exemption applies. A MIAM helps you understand your options and assess whether mediation is suitable.
Can I attend mediation without being in the same room as my ex-partner?
Yes. Where appropriate, Sussex Mediation House can arrange separate-room or online mediation. Your mediator will discuss suitability and practical arrangements with you during your MIAM.
Is family mediation cheaper than going to court?
Family mediation is often quicker and less expensive than contested court proceedings, although costs depend on the number of sessions and complexity of the issues. Eligible cases may receive support through the government £500 Family Mediation Voucher Scheme. At Sussex Mediation House this gives you 2 free joint mediation sessions.
Can we use family mediation if we aren't married or if we separated years ago?
Yes. Family mediation can help married and unmarried parents, separating couples and those who separated years ago discuss arrangements for children, finances and other practical matters. The legal framework for financial arrangements differs depending on your circumstances.
More questions about family mediation? Contact us or book a free consultation. We are happy to help. Or read our blog articles about Family Mediation.
A Path Toward Calmer Horizons
We are specialist, registered divorce and separation mediators. Our approach is centered on creating a supportive environment where your family's needs come first. Through professional guidance, we help you navigate challenging conversations, focus on what is important and find tailored, fair and realistic solutions that work for everyone. Quickly and more cost effectively than court or solicitors!
The Process:
1. Book a free 15 minute phone consultation or go straight to a MIAM - this is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting to help you understand if mediation is right for you. MIAMs are individual meetings usually held via online video calls (they can be in person if preferred) and last about 45 minutes.
2. The second person is invited to attend a MIAM. After your sessions you can get a MIAM form signed, which is often required by court. If the other person refuses to come to Mediation, you can still get a MIAM and it is noted that the other person did not attend.
3. You decide if you'd like to try Mediation or go to court.
4. If you decide to try Mediation, a joint meeting is set up. These usually last about 90 minutes. You are usually in the same room, but separate rooms can be provided or the meetings can be held online. Your mediator guides you through productive discussions about possible solutions - tailored to your unique needs and circumstances. You can discuss anything that is important to you, review finances and you can consider creative solutions. The mediator does not take sides or make judgements. Any offers or suggestions are confidential and cannot be used in court. Each person pays for their share of the session. In some instances where children are involved the government can provide a £500 voucher towards costs, and this covers 2 joint sessions.
5. There are usually 2 - 5 Joint Mediation sessions, depending on the complexity of your situation.
6. If you reach agreement, your mediator writes this up as a Parenting Plan, or in a Memorandum of Understanding, also with an Open Statement of Financial Information if finances are discussed. This is shared with you, and if you have them, with your solicitors.
7. You decide if you would like to make the solutions binding.
How Can Family Mediation Help?
How can family mediation help?
Family mediation can help separating and separated couples discuss practical arrangements and make their own decisions about their family, children and finances with the help of an impartial mediator.
We can't agree on child arrangements. Can mediation help?
Yes. Family mediation can help parents discuss where children will live, how they spend time with each parent, weekends, school holidays, Christmas, communication and other parenting arrangements following separation.
We're starting a divorce. When should we see a mediator?
You can contact a family mediator at any stage of separation or divorce. You do not need to wait until court proceedings have started or until everything has become contentious.
What is a MIAM?
A MIAM is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. It is a private initial meeting with a family mediator where you can explain your circumstances, find out how mediation works and discuss whether it may be suitable for you.
Do I have to attend mediation before going to Family Court?
In most family cases, you will normally need to attend a MIAM before making a court application, although exemptions apply. Sussex Mediation House can provide MIAMs in Eastbourne and online.
Can mediation help us sort out finances and the family home?
Yes. Family mediation can help separating and divorcing couples discuss financial matters including the family home, mortgages, savings, debts, pensions and other assets.
Can I get £500 towards family mediation?
Eligible families can receive up to £500 towards the cost of mediation through the Family Mediation Voucher Scheme. The scheme is not means-tested and is generally available for eligible cases involving children. Ask us about eligibility at your MIAM.
Specialised Support Programs
Child Inclusive Mediation
Giving children a voice in a safe environment, ensuring their feelings and needs are central to the path forward.
Therapy Dog Support
The unique option of having a calming therapy dog present during sessions to provide comfort and reduce stress.
Local Knowledge & Contacts
We work closely with local solicitors, financial advisors, PODEs, mortgage brokers and we understand the local courts.
The Hearts Behind Sussex Mediation
Elizabeth Wight
Maxi
Child Inclusive Mediators
Family Mediator - FMC & FMA
Elizabeth specialises in fostering communication and positive negotiation, helping people find creative and sustainable financial and child care solutions tailored to their family. Elizabeth is a trained Family Mediator and a member of the FMA and FMC. She is also a volunteer with the charity Mediation Plus.
Elizabeth believes in the power of Mediation and feels passionate about helping people avoid the costs, delays and stress of a broken court system.
Elizabeth has experienced divorce herself, and understands the power of moving on with dignity, to a new phase of your life.
Elizabeth Wight is a member of the Family Mediators Association (FMA), registered with the Family Mediation Council (FMC), insured and working towards full accreditation under the supervision of her Professional Practice Consultant (PPC).
Therapy Dog
Maxi provides a calming presence during sessions. Therapy dogs are shown to reduce anxiety and create a more relaxed environment for difficult conversations. If you'd like Maxi present (often helpful in Child Inclusive Mediation) make sure to add her (at no extra cost) to your session.
Accredited CIM Mediators
Sarah and Nicola specialise in child inclusive mediation (CIM) and talking to young people. This is usually for children who are able to express themselves and who would like their voice heard directly by a neutral Mediator. Research shows that including children in mediation, so their feelings can be understood, improves short-term and long-term outcomes. Children are not asked to make decisions, and taking part if voluntary.
Let’s Start Your Journey to a Calmer Horizon
We provide a supportive environment in Eastbourne for families to navigate challenging separations, divorce, child arrangements and finances, with registered and insured FMC mediators. A kinder and more cost effective way to separate.
Official MIAMs for court can be provided, including Emergency MIAMs.
Contact Us
help@sussexmediationhouse.co.uk
01323 406232
Our Haven
Eastbourne, East Sussex
